Monday, June 25, 2012

Davin's Birth Story

I wrote Brenna's birth story when she was 4 days old.  Davin is 16 days old.  I guess that's what life with 2 kids is all about!  So anyway...
Jonathan's day off was Friday, June 8.  When we got up I noticed that I was feeling a little different than normal.  I was having some contractions, but they were actually hurting less than they had been that whole week.  But something just felt "off" most of the day.  We didn't do much that day - Jonathan went to the grocery store for me, which proved to be very helpful later on.  I talked to my mom sometime around 5:00ish and she volunteered to come for the weekend just in case I went into labor.  I felt bad for her to do that in case I didn't have a baby and she had to go home only to come back a few days later.  I let her make the decision and she decided to just go ahead and come on.  Again a very helpful decision!

Mom got here about 10:15 or so and I was still feeling pretty rough.  Drinking water and laying on my side weren't helping, which they normally did at night.  I called the hospital about 11:15 and just told them how I was feeling.  They told me that I could come in if I wanted, but to maybe take a warm bath just to make sure they didn't ease off.  I took a bath and it really didn't make any difference, but they still weren't really hurting too badly or getting closer together. 
I sent Jonathan and Mom to bed a little before 1:00 I think and told them I'd wake them if anything changed.  I slept for two 20 minute stretches but woke up about 2:00 and couldn't go back to sleep.  Finally at around 3:00 I fell asleep for maybe 5-10 minutes and woke up with excruciating back labor pains that were killing me.  It felt just like my (very fast) labor with Brenna so I knew it was time!  I went to the bathroom (another good sign) and called the hospital from there.  The lady told me they had been waiting for me to call back - ha!  I woke Jonathan up and told him to get his stuff together FAST!  About this time I start thanking God that my mom was in tune with her motherly instinct and came to our house that night.  I told Mom we were leaving and off we went!  The pain was horrible!  I was getting about 30 seconds max relief between them.  We got to the hospital around 4:10 AM and they were wanting all sorts of info and our insurance card and signatures, etc.  We pre-registered for a reason, people!!  I finally got to a room and got into a gown.  I seriously thought the pain would kill me, but it didn't.  There were about 6 nurses in my room helping get my IV started and all the other things hooked up.  My nurse Rita checked me and I was 6 cm and progressing FAST.  The (super awesome) anesthesiologist came and started my epidural before my bloodwork was back and before I had 2 bags of IV fluids - about 4:45.  It seemed like he took him forever!  The relief was definitely not immediately like it had been with my epidural in labor with Brenna.  They had to come flush out something in the epidural to get the long-term relief to work, but they did not have to redo it, thank goodness!  It finally kicked in maybe 20 minutes later, but then I had this lingering pain in my left hip that was really, really hurting.  They came back in and gave me 2 other meds in the epidural that finally took care of all the pain.  When the nurse checked me right after the epidural, she reported that I was 10 cm!  She wasn't surprised and neither was I.  The doctor, nurse, and I decided together that I would labor down for awhile since I had been having a lot of trouble with hemmorroids and he was still at about a 0 station.  At some point (I can't remember when), Dr. Highland broke my water and found a small amount of meconium 


Davin never reallly moved down past a 0/+1 station, so we decided I would just have to push him the rest of the way.  The new nurse, Teresa, told me she thought it might take a little while.  I started pushing sometime around 7:20ish.  I pushed for about 20 minutes and started feeling LOTS of pressure and pain that I never felt with pushing Brenna.  I wanted him OUT!  She told me that I would probably need 3 more contractions to push through before calling Dr. Highland.  I pushed one more time and she told me to stop and called for him right then!  He came in and I delivered him with the next set of contractions.  His head came out first at 7:51 AM and he didn't cry right away - but started right after they got him suctioned out.  The NICU people that attended the birth because of the meconium left not long after since he seemed to be doing great.  They laid him on my stomach and did everything with him right there.  He didn't get taken off of me for probably an hour!  It was awesome and such a special time to just take it all in.  It took the doctor awhile to sew me up but I'm thankful that the damage was even less than with Brenna - so not really much damage at all!  The nurses eventually took Davin and cleaned him up and did all the typical newborn stuff while Jonathan and I watched. 

Davin's birth was awesome.  I love that initial bonding time that we had that I didn't really get with Brenna.  They took Brenna away from me much sooner and then took her out of the room to bathe her, etc.  Dr. Highland was great and we had great nurses throughout our stay at the hospital.  I'm not sure if it's because this will probably be our last baby, but it's been a ridiculously emotional experience for me and I just cannot get enough of our sweet baby boy!  Here's to a healthy baby and more blog posts to document his early life!



Wednesday, June 6, 2012

39.5 weeks

How far along? 39.5 weeks
Total weight gain: 33-34ish pounds
Maternity clothes? when I'm forced to take off my lounge clothes
Sleep? good....minus the contraction session around 2:00 each night
Best moment this week: a day of complete rest last Friday
Miss anything? standing without aching
Movement? yes early in the morning and late at night
Food cravings? I'm constantly hungry. Fabulous.
Anything making you queasy or sick? no
Gender: boy
Name? Davin Ryan
Labor Signs: I think it's time EVERY single night!
Symptoms: Lots of really embarrassing ones.
Belly Button in or out? totally flat
Wedding rings on or off? I decided to just leave them off this week, but put them on this morning and they fit fine!
Happy or Moody most of the time? I go back and forth lately.
Looking forward to: getting this show on the road




39 weeks

Friday, June 1, 2012

Maternity Pictures

Somehow I forgot to post our maternity session pictures on the blog.  We used a new (to us) photographer in Bristol and she did great!  Amy Mize Photography - she's awesome!  We did them when we were in Bristol right about the 30 week mark.  We were late getting there and it poured rain right when we arrived, but luckily Amy was patient and the rain cleared up so we could get these great pictures in.  Enjoy!





  




















Monday, May 28, 2012

38.2 week survey

How far along? 38.2 weeks
Total weight gain: 32 pounds
Maternity clothes? of course....and mostly comfy yoga pants with tanks...I look hot, let me tell you!
Sleep: good this week (except last night)
Best moment this week: um, it's been a rough week....
Miss anything? my waistline
Movement? alllll the time.....cause he's HUGE!!!
Food cravings? ice cream....it's so hot lately!
Anything making you queasy or sick? nah
Gender: boy
Name? Davin Ryan
Labor Signs: lots and lots of contractions and a realllllly low head in my pelvis
Symptoms: It's my blog, so I guess I can say what I want.....hemorrhoids!!
Belly Button in or out? totally flat
Wedding rings on or off? mostly off....They fit in the afternoons but not in the mornings.
Happy or Moody most of the time? grumpy and complaining.....I need to snap out of it, but just can't seem to.
Looking forward to: holding my baby and using our new elliptical!






Wednesday, May 16, 2012

36.4 weeks and Baby Update

I keep thinking each survey will be the last one I do. I literally expect labor at any moment....ouchie ouchie ouch!
I went for a growth ultrasound on Monday, and we determined I'm carrying a giant! He's in the 89th percentile.....weighing about 7.6 pounds already. Of course we all know ultrasounds aren't always accurate. Some of his measurements were in the 39 week range and some only in the 37-38 week range. All this to say I'm not dilated and we have no clue if mammoth boy will be early, on time, or late like his sis. The doctor feels sure he'll be a 9 pounder, but no talk of induction before 41 weeks at this point! He looked healthy and had a little bit of hair! His head was reallllllly low, so maybe that's a good start.
How far along? 36.4 weeks
Total weight gain: 29 pounds (which is a lot, but it's less than at this point with B)
Maternity clothes? of course
Sleep: Tylenol PM is a miracle!  I'm actually getting pretty good sleep and sometimes even a short nap!
Best moment this week: ultrasound on Monday - seeing the 4 chambers of his heart - so cool!!
Miss Anything? normalcy in all areas
Movement? alllll the time.....cause he's HUGE!!!
Food cravings? nah
Anything making you queasy or sick? I'm queasy a lot lately but not sure why!
Gender: boy
Name? Davin Ryan
Labor Signs: lots and lots of contractions and a realllllly low head in my pelvis
Symptoms: I just hurt!
Belly Button in or out? in but has popped out a few nights....but always goes back lol
Wedding rings on or off? They wouldn't go on very easily yesterday, but they fit today.
Happy or Moody most of the time? Im trying to stay positive! :)
Looking forward to: My mom coming to visit this weekend.
On Mother's Day 2012 - 36 weeks, 1 day

Friday, May 11, 2012

Mental (Cyber) Note

I wanted to jot down a few things that Brenna has said/done lately that I want to remember.  I'm smart enough to know that I can't keep up the monthly chronicles for her AND Davin, but I do want to periodically make note of some things that have made us laugh/smile from time-to-time.

*The other day we were at a stop sign.  She started spelling S-T-O-P.  We bragged on her and I told her that was a stop sign.  Then she replies, "It's an octagon!"  Thank you Sesame Street.  So now we have moved on to bigger and better shapes.  She already knew circle, square, triangle, star, heart, and diamond.  She's working on "trapa boys" (trapezoids) and rectangles now.

*She loves to watch people write words.  She thinks anything you write spells Brenna Halsey.  When Elmo writes out "Elmo's World" with his crayon, she always remarks, "Elmo write Brenna's Halsey".  Hilarious!  The other day I was showing her how to spell Mommy, but she was looking at it backwards.  She insisted, "That's not a M, that's a W!"  True, true little smartie.

*She loves to sing "The Wheels on the Bus", "Old MacDonald", "Twinkle, Twinkle", "Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear", "Itsy Bitsy Spider", an ABC song she heard on YouTube that goes through every letter..."A is for Apple, a a Apple...B is for Ball, b b Ball....".  She can sing the whole entire song!

*She's obsessed with praying.  We pray more than I've ever prayed in my life during the day.  That's a good thing.

*We went to see Jonathan's great uncle who has terminal cancer 3 weeks ago.  She saw him in the room and got scared.  His name is Don.  Brenna will randomly remark that "Donna's sick in the bed".  I'm not sure if she knows it's Don or if she thinks it's my cousin or aunt Donna that she knows well.  I try to explain to her the best I can that he's sick but he's okay.  She wanted to pray for him the other day.  Childlike faith and innocence at its best.

*She's obsessed with bubbles, coloring, running, chasing Maggie, feeding Maggie Beggin' Strips, wiping things down with a wet "papal towel", tea parties, wearing hats, fruit snacks, the 3 bears story, "strawbabbees", "chocit", tractors/lawn mowers, and her daddy.  She's terrified of automatic car washes and bugs.

*She likes going to the doctor with me and hearing her brother's heartbeat.  She uses her pretend stethoscope to listen to my belly (and leg/back, arm, etc) at home.  She also likes to check our ears, give us medicine, and test our knee reflexes.  She's getting better at cleaning up her toys and books.

*She brought me my phone the other day and Tetris was opened.  I've never even played Tetris on my phone.  I've played it on the Ipad, but not really around Brenna.  She told me as she handed me the phone, "I'm playing Tetchus".  Um, what?

*Two nights this week she called out to me after she was already in bed.  Both times she wanted to "sing a song in the chair".  I'm obviously not going to pass on that opportunity!

*Still not potty-trained.  We gave up because she got sick during our training and haven't started back up.  She's 100% not interested.  I'm 36 weeks pregnant.  I realize we need to get this show on the road, but excuses are so easy to come by!

*She's fun, challenging, loving, hysterical, shy in front of strangers, outgoing in front of friends/family, and a blessing to everyone.  I'm obseessed with HER!

Sunday, May 6, 2012

35.1 Survey

How far along? 35.1 weeks
Total weight gain: 28ish pounds - less than at this point with Brenna and hoping for no more!!
Maternity clothes? of course
Sleep: I'm sleeping pretty well but just getting up to pee 3-4 times.
Best moment this week: good report at the doctor, the news that he might be coming early - woohoo!
Miss Anything? I miss not being pregnant.  How's that for honesty?
Movement? lots and lots and lots - he seems to be really low
Food cravings? lots of sweets, but I wouldn't necessarily call it a craving.  It's more of low self-control at this point.
Anything making you queasy or sick? I get nauseous a lot, but it has nothing to do with food really.
Gender: boy
Name? Davin Ryan
Labor Signs: lots and lots of contractions still
Symptoms: Everything hurts.  Seriously, everything.
Belly Button in or out? still in surprisingly
Wedding rings on or off? still on surprisingly
Happy or Moody most of the time: I'd say not necessarily moody, just a little over it and complaining!
Looking forward to: ultrasound next Monday :)


I was literally having a contraction during this picture I'm pretty sure!